My Thoughts

不见了

相信每个人都尝试过不见了某某很喜欢的东西吧~
就如将要屏完的5000块的puzzle, 忽然不见了一块 ?
这几年辛辛苦苦存钱买的车突然不在停车场了?
价钱很贵钻戒不见了?
一个对你很有意义的饰物不见了?
又或者一个你很喜欢的玩具不翼而飞了?

嗨。。。 心痛极了, 很可惜吧!
不见了的痛往往在于它对自己的意义
不停的再想为什么它会不见,到底把它放在哪里呢? 不停的责备自己为什么自己那么不小心。。。

曾经有个朋友告诉我,钱能解决的问题根本都不再是问题, 不需要不开心
因为钱不见了,可以再赚回来啊!
所以我会用钱买回一个一模一样的它来取代不见了的痛
可惜的是:不是每一样不见了的东西 都可以用钱买得回啊

结果这一次我惟有告诉自己这一切都是“注定”的,接受现实,当它是破财挡灾。。。
可是有人却说不同意的说这是粗心大意。。。

女人

当我几乎已经尝试了所有我想去做的事情时。。。
我发现我现在很想怀孕
很想尝试有个小生命在肚子里一天一天长大的感觉是如何
这可能受到身边的朋友的影响吧
奇怪的是我竟然没有想要结婚的冲动 却单纯的想要一个自己的宝宝
怀孕也许是每个女人到了某个阶段想做的事吧
又或者
拥有一次怀孕的经历才可以令一个女人的生命变的更加完整

sometimes…

sometimes someone may did something she doesn’t really want to…
after did it she felt so BAD~
chances were given so so so many times and yet don’t see improvement at all
she is tiring picking people’s shitSSS…
overall she just trying to do her best, be fair to everyone
so for all things that SOMEONE did seems to be a DEVIL right ?
who will like to be a devil ? and who will actually like a devil ?
haha~

总是慢一步 ?

我总是觉得我做什么都比别人慢一步。。。

中学时上预备班浪费了我一年的时间!
然后为了减轻家里负担,就避自己读两年怎样读都会fail 的 form6,辛苦地考上大学。
迟了两年出来社会工作,社会经验比同年的朋友(没读form6) 少
赚的钱比他们少,不能和他们一样尽情的吃喝玩乐和旅行
然后又过了2年,慢慢地追上他们或则比他们更好
可是他们已经去到另一个阶段了, 就是买屋子或名车

我花了许多时间在工作上,才发现工作再好还是有个人分享我的喜怒唉乐
而我原来已经不年轻了,也单身了很多年
几经辛苦才知道自己要的另一半是怎样,然后找到他
正当我还努力的了解情是何物,仔细的看清楚他,
又发现我身边的朋友之前买下的屋子也都起好了
他们都一一地忙着装修屋子,计划结婚,生孩子。。。
而我到现在 连屋子都还没 买

莫非这一切因为那两年form6?
还是我太急进 ?
或则我之前放太多心机在工作上?
又或许太迟遇到他?

no longer 25

When u are in the age below 25 years old,u might do something crazy…such as
drive up to Genting just to enjoy to COLD and a cup of coffee in Starbucks/Coffee bean then reach home at 6am
or hang on a phone with a friend non stop chatting even u are sleep
or even chat with a friend via MSN till early morning
or study for exam non stop by drinking LIVITA only… then hang out for a very early dimsum@6am!
or hang out for clubbing till 3am, yam cha till 5am~
or playing dangerous game like paint ball, bungee jump,water rafting and etc…

Somehow, I am no longer in age 25, everything just changed.
I start yawning when time reach 2am. I wish I could yam cha @ Genting but my body just cant stand it, the most I can stand will be around 3-4am only, I cant control my watery eyes and sleepiness.
When I can’t sleep wanting to talk on phone, no one there to accompany me anymore as I believe close and same age friend feel the same….body is tired and wanting to sleep or nothing much to talk as we had talked too much in younger age….

What will happen when my age reach 30 ? perhaps the sleeping hour turns early, i must sleep at 2am ?or I no longer wish to hang out, just sit at home only…. hmmm….guess very soon i will know it.

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真的吗?

台据刚说:
“我爱你你爱我叫恋爱, 这最多维持两年
两个人要一辈子走下去
需要的是一起付出同样的爱
一起爱我们的家庭
爱我们的生活
爱我们的婚姻
甚至是爱我们的孩子”

这是真的吗?

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Love Is???

Someone told me these love principles which I think is accurate so I share it here… :)
At early 20s,we ask to set principles.
1. Love is understanding
2. Love need respect
3. Love is commitment.
There, we running these principles…

When we going into 30s, each point will grow more sentences.
1. Love is understanding. Do u understand me,my past and my future
2. Love need respect. Do u respect me as much I respect u. As partner, as a women, as ur loved one
3. Love is commitment. How we are commited to each other..in our own unique way..

By the time u married,the field levels willl be totally difererent.
1. Love is understanding – both shud understanding each other and is no longer a couple. It a partnership call family. I can know wat u thinking without asking ald..
2. Love needs respect – u respect him as leader of the family, he respect u as the backbone of the family. Both equally important. Each complete each other.
3. Love is commitment – u no longer think u will lose him but think how to commit to make the family happy and growing.